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It’s very common to feel overwhelmed, exhausted and a range of other emotions during pregnancy or when looking after a new baby. It is going to be one of the biggest changes in your life and one that we are all often totally unprepared for.

The first year after having a baby is also a time of great change not only to your identity but also to your relationships. It’s helpful to take a breath and pause for a moment and let it all sink in, allowing yourself time to settle into your new life as a parent. It takes time to adjust and also to get to know your baby and learn to manage your new life.

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Seeking help

As a very first step in seeking help, talking to other parents who are at a similar life stage can be helpful to feel heard, understood, and less isolated. Often offloading fears and frustrations is all that is needed to feel more at ease, but be mindful to choose someone who is non-judgemental and easy to be honest with.

If support from friends and family is not enough, there are many helpful online sources of peer support. Health professionals are also a source of support for new and expectant parents, whether they have physical or emotional concerns.

When to seek further support

If a new parent feels overly worried, more irritable, or sadder than usual, or if sleep or appetite changes and doesn’t settle within two weeks, it is time to seek support. 1 in 5 mothers and 1 in 10 fathers are affected by perinatal depression and anxiety (PNDA), and although it is common, accessing professional help for perinatal depression and anxiety can feel daunting at times.  

There is often a stigma surrounding mental health, so making the first approach to a professional is not always easy. If this is the case, a friend or relative can make the phone call on their behalf or attend the appointment for support. Health professionals are trained to treat a wide variety of anxious and depressive feelings and should not be feared.

Expectant and new parents might not seek help because:

  • They may not realise they have a medical condition that can be treated
  • They feel shame or guilt for not enjoying their parenting role
  • They are afraid of being labelled a ‘bad mother’
  • A diagnosis can prove difficult if not consulting with someone who has perinatal experience
  • Prior negative experience with health professionals
  • Fear of having the baby taken away
  • Stigma associated with mental health conditions
  • Access to support may be difficult  
  • Dads/partners may feel bad saying they are struggling, given what their partner is going through
  • Dads/partners may feel like it is not supportive to talk about their feelings
  • Partners might be busy juggling work and family and don’t realise their own mental health is deteriorating

Research has consistently shown that parents who receive timely professional support have the best chances of recovering from PNDA.

Where can I find help?

Professionals who can help with perinatal depression and anxiety:

  • Child and Family Health Nurse
  • General Practitioner
  • Midwife
  • Obstetrician

Health professionals can refer to the following specialists if further support is required:

  • Psychologist
  • Psychiatrist
  • Social Worker
  • Specialist support groups
  • Mental health nurses
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Dec 2024
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Frequently asked questions

What is PNDA (perinatal depression and anxiety?)

Pregnancy and the first year of parenthood (the perinatal period) is a unique time and involves major changes in a person’s life. The challenges associated with this adjustment to parenthood are often underestimated within our society and cultures. All expectant and new parents, including both mums and dads or partners will have some good days and some bad days. Ups and downs are expected and common. But when bad days become the norm, a parent may be experiencing perinatal depression or anxiety, and treatment may be required.

How can Gidget Foundation Australia (GFA) help someone struggling with PNDA?

Gidget Foundation Australia specialises in perinatal mental health care. GFA has experienced perinatal clinicians who can support expectant, new and potential parents. With a referral, clients can be offered up to 10 Medicare bulk-billed psychological counselling sessions per calendar year with a GP referral. There are no out of pocket cost to you or your family for these sessions. The sessions can be either face-to-face or via a video call, called Telehealth. All you need for Telehealth is a tablet/PC and an internet connection. You will be advised which service you can access when you call.

I think myself or a friend may be experiencing PNDA. What should I do next?

If support from friends and family is not enough, there are many health professionals whom you can turn to, like your GP, midwife or other trusted health professional. It can be a bit daunting to reach out for either yourself or someone close to you, but health professionals know how hard it can be and know that these anxious and depressive feelings are common and can be treated. A GP may refer you to a counsellor, psychologist or a psychiatrist, which can be helpful as you adjust to your new role. At Gidget Foundation Australia we take great care in delivering evidence-based care, from start to finish.

Am I eligible to access GFA’s free counselling services?

GFA provides support for new and expectant parents Australia-wide who are trying to have a family, parents who have a baby up to the age of one, those who have experienced a pregnancy or baby related loss or have experienced a traumatic birth. Other criteria will be discussed with you when you call to ensure GFA can provide the best care for you or a loved one.

How can I access GFA’s free counselling?

Before an appointment can be booked at GFA, you will need to arrange an appointment with your GP to obtain two things: a Mental Health Treatment Plan, which entitles you to up to 10 Medicare bulk-billed sessions and a letter of referral to GFA services. Making a longer appointment with your GP is a good idea as it may take 30 minutes or so to complete this process.

What is a Mental Health Treatment Plan and what does that mean?

A Mental Health Treatment Plan is a management for people with a mental health diagnosis including a perinatal mood or anxiety disorder. The plan identifies what type of health care you need and identifies what you and your doctor have agreed that you are aiming to achieve. It also may refer you to local mental health services; in this case the referral would be specifically to Gidget Foundation Australia.

More information about a Mental Health Treatment Plan can be found on the Health Direct and Australian Government Department of Health websites

What happens once I've been referred or enquired with GFA?

After a warm welcome by our administrative team, if all the paperwork has been completed by you and your GP referral has been received, a session will be arranged for you with one of our perinatal specialists. As we support expectant, new and potential parents Australia-wide, this appointment will either be face-to-face at one of our Gidget House locations or via a video call. You will also receive reminder text messages from the GFA team to remind and confirm your appointments.

Do I need to be close to a Gidget House to access support?

GFA has locations nationally. However, GFA understands that locations may not always be accessible to you. If you are not located near a Gidget House, Telehealth services are available.

Please note, waitlists can vary at each location, so please ask GFA staff to advise on the potential wait periods for your location.  

How can Gidget Foundation Australia help someone struggling with PNDA?

At Gidget Foundation Australia we have experienced perinatal specialist clinicians who are ready to support you and offer at least 10 Medicare bulk-billed psychological counselling sessions per calendar year. There is no cost to you for these sessions. These can be either face-to-face or via a video call, called Telehealth. All you need for Telehealth is a tablet/PC and an internet connection. You will be advised which service you can access when you call.

I think myself or a friend is experiencing perinatal depression or anxiety. What should I do next?

If support from friends and family is not enough, there are many health professionals whom you can turn to, like your GP. It can be a bit daunting to reach out for either yourself or someone close to you, but health professionals know how hard it can be and know that these anxious and depressive feelings can be treated and how common they are. A GP may refer you to a counsellor, psychologist or a psychiatrist which can be helpful as you adjust to this new life. At Gidget Foundation Australia we take great care in delivering our service from start to finish.